Up until a few years ago, taboo sex was something that no one talked about. If you weren’t participating in vanilla, traditional sex, then people viewed you as weird. In general, people didn’t really talk about sex and it was considered something that should only be discussed between couples behind closed doors. The more this type of sex is accepted, the more people choose to try it out. They are able to feel confident that they won’t be judged. They can also feel like there is a community for people like them where they can go and discuss the different things they are into and get ideas of what other’s are into. The biggest difference between taboo and traditional is that there are so many different types of taboo sex. If you can imagine it, it’s probably a type. With that being said, there are some types of sex that are more common and others that aren’t really talked about.
There are even BDSM membership clubs that you can go to and participate in these types of sex with other people. You don’t have to worry about being judged or feeling ashamed because they are enjoying the same things you are. You might actually end up trying something out that you really enjoy. You also don’t have to worry about diseases or anything like that because a waiver needs to be signed right when you get to the club. In addition, you don’t have to worry about being embarrassed talking to the people afterwards because, more often then not, you’ll never run into them again or you’ll only see them while you’re at the club. Of course, you could always get the person’s contact information and choose to associate outside of the club.
These clubs usually have areas where multiple people can do sexual activities together or you can choose to get a private room. Once you get there, they will let you know of any rules that need followed and let you know that you can and will be kicked out and banned if you break these rules. While the rules will vary from place to place, there are a few that are the same at every place. Some of those are listed below.
- Respect everyone.
- If someone isn’t into it, don’t force it.
- Don’t be aggressive.
- Don’t drink too much.
- Always be safe.
- Set your boundaries and let people know them as well as knowing theirs.
- Don’t take any videos or photos.
- What happens in the club stays in the club.
Most of the clubs are extremely strict about these rules and they are there to keep everyone safe and comfortable. Remember, if you are in a club and in a situation that you don’t want to be in, don’t be afraid to get up and move or bring it up to the owners or people on duty. Since they want everyone to be comfortable and enjoying themselves, they take anything like this very seriously.